Pain Management.

Pain Management.

Recent weeks have seen diagnostic and training sessions for the clergy of this diocese, including an all-day meeting which utilized a personal evaluation and a follow-up tool for change management from consultancy group MHS Assessments/Calm Worldwide.

These training instruments are advertised as useful for organizations addressing “both initiated and opposed change.”

The personal assessment, “The Change Style Indicator” is a psychometric evaluation which scores each respondent and places him:

“ . . . On a continuum between:

Conserver: prefers the known to the unknown

Pragmatist: prefers to explore the current situation in an objective manner

Originator: prefers a faster and more radical approach to change”

Respondents are advised, on the basis of the assessment, how to recognize their own approach to changes and those of other people, so that they can increase openness to change, both within themselves and others.

The follow up training tool, “Change Navigator: from Resistance to Resilience”, promises:

“A unique exercise in change exploration designed for organizations that are undergoing a specific change event.”

“It takes participants on a journey through the stages of transition that are common to periods of change and helps people to understand and navigate them. It focuses on the emotions of individuals as they navigate change and the predictable stages of transition.”

Participants are helped to identify what stage of transition they are in and learn how to move forward toward the later stages, overcoming resistance.

According to Calm Worldwide, the exercise is especially appropriate for organizations which:

-“Have planned a change event and are concerned about successful implementation due to potential cultural conflicts or lack of adoption.

-“Are currently undergoing a large scale change initiative and are worried about the progress being made due to organizational adoption.”

The training tool is billed as a way to achieve “happier people, faster buy-in, and better implementation of organizational change.”

Three additional points from the Change Navigator may be of interest:

Derailing”

Participants are warned that certain behaviors enable change to move forwards while others prevent it. These “derailing behaviors” include denial (remaining uninformed or unwilling to question current models), resistance, uninformed exploration, and failure to commit. Participants are asked to list their own derailing behaviors.

Anticipating Pain:

That drastic changes produce negative emotions such as anxiety, confusion, frustration, and fatigue, in oneself and others, is noted. A leader’s job is to help others get past the pain and into a place where they can accept the changes.

Targeted Management:

Helping others navigate change isn’t entirely a straightforward matter, however, as it has to take into account the “change style” of those negatively impacted, and adjust the approach accordingly.

For individuals who may fall into the “conservers”category, for instance, one recommended strategy is:

“Present a minimum of information and ask what else is needed…don’t start by presenting the big picture.”

What changes are coming that diocesan leadership believes will be so painful as to be widely opposed and potentially resisted?


23 Replies to “Pain Management.”

  1. In the best hands, these change seminars can help organizations stuck in a divisive deadlock against factions from within to come to a mutual agreement and not see each other as enemies. In the worst of hands, it enables corporate bullying and gaslighting from one faction against another.

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  2. Shocked.
    Stunned.
    Drama.
    Is this really a Catholic blog?
    Are posters in Communion with the Catholic Church?
    Undermining the Bishop, based on speculation?
    I have many friends in different parishes across the diocese.
    They are embracing United in Heart.
    Their priests (& mine) are embracing Uniting in Heart.
    I’m trying to figure out what parish or parishes this group is from. (I don’t literally need to know.) Are some priests actually aligned against their Bishop?
    Many of the words posted don’t sound Christian (let alone Catholic).
    Some of the words sound defamatory.
    The Bishop’s teachings are very traditionally Catholic.
    Are we all from the Diocese of Lafayette?
    These postings & urgings of “more” from Red Wolf sound strangely like what’s going on in our country today- “let’s incite chaos” so a plan won’t work.
    Other times these words sound reminiscent of “Crucify him! Crucify him!”
    It’s painful to sense so much unhappiness when others are carrying joy.
    My friends & I are educated.
    We (at least many) have read the same articles linked here.
    Anything can be twisted to sound like something it’s not or that will never happen.
    “Reprogramming,” “bullying,”
    “abuse of clergy” don’t even sound like they come from the same source or Uniting in Heart.

    The Bishop is leading during a difficult time- a pandemic (where information is rapidly changing) & a time of moral cultural war in our society.
    Can’t we at least support the Bishop? Can’t we lift him up?
    Can’t we try Uniting in Heart before blasting all kinds of insults at it?
    Our Bishop is our shepherd. He promotes no heresy. I pray for him. I pray for hearts hurting from projected, speculative possibilities.
    I pray for the priests & parishioners who are embracing Uniting in Heart with joy.

    In Jesus, through Mary, may we pray for our country, our church, our bishop, our priests, our fellow parishioners. Amen.

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    1. Are you seriously questioning whether or not people who comment on this blog are really Catholic and in communion with the Catholic Church because they dare to question the Bishop? That is ludicrous. We are living in a time where we have priests, bishops and cardinals openly supporting and even living actively gay lifestyles.

      We have priests, bishops and cardinals who have molested children and/or actively helped cover up such atrocities, and continue to do so EVERY day. And yet you, SS, seem to think that questioning a bishop about a restructuring plan is not Catholic or makes us not in communion with the Catholic church. We have been given plenty of reasons to question those in power. In fact, sometimes it is our duty to question and disagree so as to protect the Bride of Christ.

      Shocked.
      Stunned.
      Drama.

      This UniTed in Heart plan has so many aspects to it that that beg for the faithful and the clergy to question it. Feel free to embrace this plan, many certainly will. Let’s talk again in 6-12 months and see how well our diocese is doing. About that time we’ll be hearing from the hierarchy that COVID really hurt things, and that is the sole reason the people haven’t returned to the churches, and why the weekly collections are down significantly more than the projections showed, and that is why we are going to have to start shutting down churches.

      That won’t really be the reason though, it will be because of this terrible plan, and the way the sacraments were treated as non-essential during COVID.

      The way the faithful were abandoned and not allowed to receive reconciliation even though there were any number of ways it could have been done safely and in compliance with federal, state, local, and CDC guidelines.

      It will be because our bishop stated over and over that his number one concern was the pastoral care of souls, even though his actions and decree clearly showed he felt we the people, the Mass, and the sacrament of reconciliation were a liability to him.

      It will be about the culture of silence and fear within diocesan employees and clergy with everything involved in this plan. Don’t you think it speaks volumes that most of us post anonymously?

      It will be because this is a terrible plan, and moving nearly every priest, and forcing several into retirement because they disagreed the plan was a very bad idea.

      I hope I’m wrong about everything and that this plan brings in more money for the diocese, helps prevent us from closing down parishes.
      I hope we don’t lose significant numbers of parishioners, and at the same time bring in many new people to the Catholic faith.
      I hope this fosters many vocations so we can have more priests in the diocese.
      I hope Amazing Parish is successful and helps take a load off the priests so they can be more successful and have less burnout.

      I hope for many more things, but I don’t think this restructuring plan is the way for those things to happen.

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  3. I cannot believe how much money is being wasted on this garbage! This does feel like a Scientology hoodwink tactic. The parishes are empty. I’m sick and tired of the lack of creativity with our diocesan leaders. If training like this is being utiluzed, why not actually speak with the priests and laity who are resistant to this plan?

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  4. Let’s slap labels on our priests, organize them into categories, develop an enemies list, and begin the purge. Man, Stalin would blush at the machinations of our diocesan leadership! What a way to accompany a joyful band of missionary disciples, guys! Our good priests need to realize they are being played for the purposes of being “sifted”. Time to go underground and fight back. I’m sure there will be more of these dumb surveys in the future and a stupid, dishonest survey deserves stupid, dishonest answers. I hope all our good priests give this machine exactly what it wants so they avoid being targeted and can continue to save souls. Trust me, the souls of the laity out here need you to stay in the mix. Don’t let them railroad you just because you scored too high as a “Conserver”. Outrageous! A young man surrenders his life to God to become a priest of Jesus Christ only to be bullied or have his faculties stripped because he accumulated to many “Conserver” points. Nuts! We’re praying for you all as we laity do our part to drain the diocesan swamp.

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    1. THIS, UNITED IN RESISTANCE!! I hope that our good and faithful Diocesan priests know about this site. I hope they know that there are good and faithful laity who love them and pray for them. I hope that the people reading this site understand that jumping ship and going looking for greener pastures will not help save the local Church. We must stay and fight for our parishes!!!

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  5. This whole plan is just a dumpster fire of a disaster. There was such dishonesty and non-transparency from the start to finish. And now priests are being “reprogrammed” to accept the change. This is problematic on so many levels. I have redirected my Fruitful Harvest funds like Emily and can only hope and pray that Uniting in Heart will be changed. That seems like a long shot and the hierarchy is determined to ruin the Diocese. Such blind arrogance.

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  6. I definitely want to be psychometrically evaluated to be an originator on the change style indicator. Sounds like the most “amazing” option to me! I want to get people past the pain and into acceptance as soon as possible.

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        1. Friar Schultz, According to this prior article tea GE is from the Vatican down. Someone is Protestantizing our Sacred Mother Church. Please read this: https://theredwolfreport.com/index.php/2020/06/03/the-why/. I came from Mega Church and don’t want to go back. But I have finally found the truth and it seems the Vatican wants to destroy that . My heart aches. All need to pray the rosary! My heart is deeply saddened.

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          1. Fear not, Elizabeth! Wayward clerics have been trying to rip down Holy Mother Church ever since Judas Iscariot became an apostle, all to no avail. You have to believe Christ’s promise in Matthew 16:18. The Catholic Church has been graced to weather any storm the world, the flesh, or the devil can throw at Her until Christ comes again to claim His Bride. Not only that, but She continues to make saints every day, all while the war rages on! The Church’s long history has proven this time and time again.

            Now, scripture makes no promise that the Catholic Diocese of Lafayette-in-Indiana could not become so overwhelmingly mismanaged and emptied of souls that it dissolves and is merged with other dioceses. This is not an unheard of phenomenon. Why, just last month the Diocese of Juneau, Alaska was dissolved by the Pope and merged with its bigger neighbor. But what a completely avoidable tragedy it would be if that happened to us. We have (unlike Juneau, Alaska) many growing parishes and a solid track record of vocations (until very recently). Our diocese still has no reason to radically transform everything when all we really need to do is close a scattering of old, rural parishes that now find themselves in depopulated areas of the state. That’s what we’re all hoping and praying for right now: That this self-imposed self-destruction is reversed and a saner, more charitable leadership takes the helm before our diocese truly runs aground.

            Anyway, no matter how all this Uniting in Heart stuff shakes out, don’t take your eyes off of Christ nor let the failings of His priests and bishops shake your faith. Pray for them constantly (for they are under daily spiritual assaults) and stay close to the Good Shepherd and His sacraments (even if you have to drive a bit to receive them). John 14:18

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  7. This sounds like a form of mental abuse by the bishop on his clergy. I have and continue to pray for our clergy. They appear to definitely be in a real bind. Priests—stay true to Christ and pray for Our Lady’s protection. Something is going on, and it’s bigger than our bishop.

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    1. Agree. I am really sad about the disrespectful way the priests seem to be treated and I pray for them. We have sons and we have always hoped and prayed and encouraged them about a priestly vocation. They love their parish, their friends there, serving Mass etc and they pray every night for their own vocation. But after all this I am not really sure I would steer them to discern for DOL, as sad as that makes me. I think we would talk about Orders and places that are not suffering so much from toxicity of leadership. There are many good priests here but I don’t think they are appreciated and treated appropriately. I want a healthy vocation environment for my kids.

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  8. I would call this tactic manipulation…or re-education…of our pastors, who are expected to re-educate their parish, or rather, their mega churches of grumbling and unhappy people. What happens if a parishioner continues to actually think like Jesus?

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  9. This UiH is doomed! This is removing the few vestiges of what is remaining of Catholic!

    The schism is obvious now and our pope, bishops and priest are pushing the Vat2 church off the cliff! Good riddance!

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    1. I agree. Just take the Spirit of Vatican 2 off life-support and let it die a natural death. It’s run its course. It started a revolution and in the end, after all these decades, no one cares. The evidence is painfully obvious in the empty pews that aren’t presently roped-off with police tape. This is what over three generations of bad catechesis, terrible leadership, and liturgical mockeries earns you. This whole UiH-Amazing Parish-Divine Renovation nonsense just feels like the dying last gasp of that revolutionary spirit. And, fresh out of ideas, our leadership is seizing the dying Spirit of Vatican 2, dressing it up in a cheap suit, pumping it with stimulants and shoving it back out onto the stage. For who? There’s no one in the audience anymore, guys! Look around you! They’re all gone! Please wake up before the Master returns. Matthew 24:45-51

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  10. It’s all so cold and calculating: how to bully the priests along so the people will be bullied along.

    It’s all so cold, calculating and corporate. Our bishop never had any intention of letting us in on anything — until this website revealed his plan.

    And all of the pastors have to attend weekly re-education to move them along.

    I wonder how it must feel to the pastors to have to meet with a lay “pastoral consultant “ who will turn them in if they say how they really feel?

    How will it feel when their sermons are edited because they’re not “missionary” enough?

    I wonder how it feels as a pastor to know that there’s no wiggle room: toe the line or be called in on the carpet?

    Sounds to me like priests’ lives are turning into a living hell…

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    1. I am curious as to what will happen as the Fruitful Harvest pledges don’t get fulfilled because the people have no loyalty to the new pastors, have left because of the excessive Corona Rules, and have decided to go to other dioceses for Mass. As the money continues to dries up, what then? Is there a plan for that? Bishop Doherty and his lawyers have treated us like legal liabilities. I’m doubtful of this new plan, given how we have been treated thus far. Our priests should have been ministering to us, not going to meetings.

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      1. Once the money dries up, maybe Eli Lilly will dole out another grant out of pity to keep things AMAZING!

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      2. I was wondering about that too. Personally, I just took the rest of my Fruitful Harvest pledge money and used it to help a family in financial trouble. I just have lost faith that the money I send to the diocese is actually serving the Church and the Gospel, I can’t do it anymore. My husband and I feel like it’s being wasted on stuff like this–“re-training “the clergy to be corporate bots. If we are going to make a sacrificial gift we want it to actually do something good not demoralize the priests and people. It feels like they are stringing us along for the $ until they close our parishes for good, and if our leaders can’t see what’s wrong about that, then I don’t know what to tell them. 🙁

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